“From the time you were very little, you’ve had people who have smiled you into smiling, people who have talked you into talking, sung you into singing, loved you into loving. Let’s just take some time to think of those extra special people, some may be right here, some may be far away, some may even be in heaven, no matter where they are, deep down you know, they’ve always wanted what was best for you, they’ve always cared about you beyond measure and have encouraged
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2018年，一部由汤姆·汉克斯出演的纪录片《与我为邻》（Won't You Be My Neighbor？）在烂番茄网获得99%的好评。该片的主人公弗雷德·罗杰斯（Fred Rogers）是美国最著名、影响最深远的儿童电视节目《罗杰斯先生的邻居》（Mr. Rogers' Neighborhood）的制作人及主持人。他从1968年开始主持的《罗杰斯先生的邻居》，影响了四十年间一代代的美国儿童。
但很少有人知道，这位被称为“儿童电视之父”的传奇人物还是一位牧师。在1950年代那个电视还很稀奇、属于不折不扣的新媒体的时候
在此之前，我只认识一个罗杰斯，他叫卡尔·罗杰斯，是一位人本主义心理学家。
这部电影，让我认识了另一个罗杰斯，他叫弗雷德·罗杰斯，是一位几乎进行了一辈子的儿童教育家。
这难道是一种偶然吗？两个罗杰斯都有一种善良的面孔，都有一种对人无条件积极关怀的价值持有。
而弗雷德，关注的群体，是世界上弱小的一个，声音和力量都极其容易被忽视掉的一个。
弗雷德看到了他们，还看重着他们，为了儿童能更好地成长，他几乎奉献了自己的一辈子，甚至连自己的信仰也放弃了，不再进行神学布道
影片最后给剧中的人以及剧外的人一分钟的时间想想那些在我们生命中帮助我们成为更好的自己的人有谁？
有人想的是他的妈妈，有人想的是她的保姆，有人想的是弗雷德。
我想的是我的妈妈，从小给我念故事书，在我的爱情受挫时治愈我，在我生病时照顾我，在我抑郁时鼓励我。
当然不止我的妈妈，还有我的朋友，老师，以及给我善意的陌生人。
你呢？
Fred Rogers 真的好棒！这才是我们需要的儿童教育啊！
让孩子有自信，能接受错误，有爱自己和爱他人的能力。
It's you I like
It's not the things you wear
It's not the way you do your hair
But it's you I like
The way you are right now
The way deep down inside you
Not the things that hide you
Not your fancy chair
That's just beside you
But it's you I like
Every part of you
Your skin, your eyes, your feelings
Whether old or new
I hope that you'll remember
What do you do with the mad you feel when you feel so mad you could bite, when the whole wide world seems oh so wrong and nothing you do seems very right?
It's great to be able to stop, when you've planned a thing that's wrong, and be able to do something else instead and think this song.
I can stop when I want to, can stop when I wish, can stop, stop, stop anytime. Know that there's something deep inside that helps us become what we can.
《与我为邻》[Film Review] Won’t You Be My Neighbor? (2018) 7.8/10
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